Gordie, I'm trying not to mind read with her and spend too much time thinking why she does what she does. Acc has warned me to focus on what actually happened and stay away from "fabrications". But I'll indulge a bit...

My perspective is that she sees me as a weight she needs to free herself from. As long as we're still M, she's going to obsess about me and why I'm not setting her free to pursue her shiny new life. So yes, in that sense, she is thinking about me. All of her talking seems to serve the purpose of moving toward the D. She may also be a narcissist, and it's just too hard for her to handle that she's not a main character in my story any more.

It could also be something else. This mind reading just isn't healthy for me.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.