Originally Posted By: dusty70
Wife sent me a text stating that she found a home that she wanted to put a down payment on. She needs me to sign something(waiver?) allowing her to purchase this home using her retirement money for the down payment


Oh God, 2 weeks ago my STBXW did the EXACT SAME THING! It's starting to get really scary how similar our sitches seem. I know you've been off the board for a few weeks, but you might get a kick looking into my Part 4 thread to see how this played out in my sitch.

Originally Posted By: dusty70
I told her that I will not do anything until the lawyers figure out the distribution of money from these accounts. She then blamed me for dragging this out.


My STBXW lost her sh1t when I told her my L advised me not to sign the waiver. Now she's blaming me for keeping her a prisoner in the house and not allowing her to move on with her life. I'm telling you, our W's have the same divorce app.

Unlike some of the others here, I got the impression you handled the discussion about this fairly well. Your W seems to be the one who exploded, and I think you responded about as well as can be expected.

Dude, your future is out there. Find it.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.