EastTn You are spot on about me being the nice guy, I've always been this way. I have been trying to change and will continue but this has happened so fast I can't fix it all at once! Our conversation started out on a calm level until she erupted over me answering a question regarding the lawyers. I will be better prepared if this happens again! Thank you!
JoeJoe, I do have a lot of frustration and anger towards her as she destroys our family, I am 1000 times better than I was 6 months ago if you can believe that! I hate that my kids are affected by this, I will make sure that we have any discussions in the future more private to keep it from them! And I do have the "Lighthouse" I read it every other day, I am trying to be that for my kids.