When I picked our D for the weekend, she asks if I have plans on Sunday night. Immediatley I say yes, the reason for my response is this. She works the bar scene and doesn't get to go that often now as she has minmal people she knows and even less that will babysit for her. When we were together I no quarrels with her having nights out with the girls during the week as she worked evry weekend, at night. This turned into her finding OM and we know where has lead. So when she asks if I have plans on any given night the answer is always yes. My reasons are that I facilitated that lifestyle style for her before and look where it got me, and I am not willign to give her that freedom now. Am I wrong to think this way? She never tells me what the plans are she wishes to have, just asks if I have plans, but I know what the plans are, so again, Am I wrong to think this way???
That is my question for today, any insight out there???