She is not feeling any pressure from you about the affair....or the MR. She is ultimately cake eating. She gets benefits from the M and the affair. She is very close to friend zoning you, if she hasn't already.


So how do i handle this aspect^^^^^^^? do i apply some pressure(how/ what type)or not say anything about the A? Just a little confused. Sorry if this sound repititious. Just wanna get it right, Sandi. One of my 180's ws to not mention the A or relationship because i had this bad habit of doing it all the time. i did set a boundary of no contact with OM in our home.


M 51 W 46
D14 S13
M 16yrs
T17yrs
BD 06/25/17
OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY
Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances