Sotto, I ditto what Irish said: that your big heart shines through in your posts. You offer wonderful advice.

I want to thank you for posting to us and on your own thread. It is very helpful as you are an inspiration! Like so many of us here, you had a loved one completely break with reality and yet you stood strong through it all.

You can't control the fact that your h had obvious poor coping skills (as the MLC prone do) but you can be very proud that you were kind and stood through some serious insanity.

Thanks for all the help you've always given me. I sending you positive thoughts!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced