Roist- I am also following along. Kudos to you on re-directing your mind to the positives.

I am just curious, have you also gone through a period where you did not initiate any reaching out/attempt connection? And if so, how did she respond?

Thinking of you.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced