again, "ugh" for you. So painful sounding. Zeus posited a good point about the 2 separate issues, one being whether you ever meet OM.
When she insists you "WILL MEET OM!!"
maybe all you have to say is "not today". ( I wonder why it's so important to her that you two meet soon. And the phrase "that which we resists, persists" comes to mind.)
Oh, and my point about saying
"affairs are 100% wrong 100% of the time" - is to ask,
if you believe that^^ -- then why come HERE? I'm asking.
Nope, I don't think affairs are all alike and I don't think they should all be treated alike.
Just Seems over simplified. And no, I did not have an affair.
Park, I'm really sorry this is dragging on, and so in your face. It's one of the more difficult situations here. While, I don't think your approach is working,
for now I'm just sending you support in a horrific time.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
