But it's still a weird feeling this "normality" yet I understand everything Sandi is saying about the lack of pressure and cake eating. So in my case I get the pre-affair W but with a vastly improved relationship plus the bedroom activities that were never there before. Quite mystifying!

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains