I'm in the Army. So I hope what I type don't sound too harsh.
You are on your own journey now. Your marriage at this point is done.
There is no magic advice here for you to tell your wife. She is done with the marriage. She is not coming back to the old marriage or the old you.
What you are doing now is going down your own path and leaving a road open for your wife. You want her to see the new you. And make it where leaving the new you will make her feel like a fool.
No one here is going to place blame on your wife(do she share blame, of course). Will blaming help you in uour journey, NO.
If you want to save your marriage It's all on you. I know it [censored], 25 said it's going to take a Hurclean effort. But guess what we get to be Hurcleaus, who would of thought. But seriously, this is all on you. You wont get no help from your W. That's why all the focus is put on you in this forum.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
