Yes, to answer your question, I know cases where the W already has the format for being a wayward W. In other words, she may have been a wayward teenager or young adult. She already has the selfish nature; resents anyone that crosses her; was already rebellious toward her parents (or some system). She doesn't have respect and uses manipulation, controlling and bullying to get her way....as her usual MO. The poor guy that marries this type of woman is just asking for a miserable MR. There have been many cases here on the board like this, and adding infidelity to the mix is not a long stretch for her. I have little hope for her, b\c this has been a lifelong behavior. It may be possible for her to change, but I think she would need to want that change more than anything in life. It would take a lot of work and training. She would need a new heart.
Wow. This explains so much about my sitch.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
