Originally Posted By: Joseph9
IMO she truly enjoys her apartment, having a week off at a time from our children and hanging out/partying with her girlfriends.


Yep and I get that for right now. Just like when they were younger and going out and partying all the time until they got sick of that and wanted to get married.I think AS put it best when he said taking care of kids, doing laundry and cleaning toilets isn't sexy.

The single life I am sure will be fun at first. Until the fantasy becomes a reality and they realize the pool to choose from is slim pick ems. Then money starts to get tight which puts more stress in their lives. Soon turning 50 approaches and all they want is safety and security in their life and their children home seven days a week.

In the mean time we have done all the work and finally understand relationships and have our $hit totally together and we end up meeting the woman of our dreams.

That happens all the time on here AS, Accuray, Kaizen etc. It's called karma baby!