Thanks PiB, but now you have raised another question, if she wants time alone, why does she want to do things with me???
I know for a fact she still longs for OM, but how long will that last? Only she knows I guess, I'm not in this to try and make her change her mind at all, I'd rather she see what she has lost and come back to something real and loving.
I will definitley heed your advice and let her make the moves and continue on with my life. Her and only her can make the decision to reconcile, I have made my peace with her and she knows where I stand, so now is time to let the cards fall where they may.
I will admit I was the one initiating most of the contact as of late, I will try to be less forthcoming with her and see if she means what she says.
Anyone out there have any tidbits as to how to approach my sitch? By that I mean, do I send her flowers from time to time, call to chat or things like that? I just don;t want to push her to hard to the point where she doesn't even want me in her life anymore, but seeing her and being with her, then watching her go away to be OM tears my insides apart.
Is this a time where Is hould go dark for a few weeks to see where it leads, or keep up with the pleasantries and the how do ya dos???
My gut tells me to pursue, pursue, pursue like there's no tomorrow..Is this wrong, it maybe, but that is what my gut tells me, shower her with love and maybe she will come around to seeing that hey, he isn;t that bad after all...
