Thank you for the kind words. I think I really just need to force the issue of detachment at this point. It's hard to do after being together for 10 years. It seems any time I bring up our relationship it's making her feel pressured and I need her to be relaxed so that we can move forward.
She had a rough weekend after our daughter cut her hair, then when she went to get it cut, she found out our daughter had lice. I went out and got supplies and had her bring the kids over later in the day and took care of it. My wife seemed pretty uncomfortable when she showed up, but after running back to her house to start laundry, asked if she should bring a pizza back. We actually ate together as a family for the first time in a long while.
Probably my biggest thing is overwhelming responses. I need to chill and not react too excitedly when things like this happen, or it'll be right back to pressuring her. I'll get there... and hopefully at some point she'll come around.
M:33 W:36 T:10 M:7 D8, D6 EA->PA (me) July/Aug '16 W move out 8/30/16 Recon M 9/7/16 S0 (miscarried) 9/13/16 W moved back 9/17/16 BD/WAW 6/24/17 while out of town Home to empty apartment 6/27/17
