I has the papers drawn up and sent to W for review. So I doubt there was a date. Just wanted to get her to agree on things prior to paying to file and find out she wants to fight it, which would cost me more money. I had the papers drawn up, because I had finally had enough of her nonsense. And if I was going to get through these financial issues, then I would have to get rid of her as a W. Now I admit that there is a small part of me that would be happy if the papers caused her to snap out of this fog.
By the way things went well yesterday with us meeting up for S14 birthday. Thought it would be weird for us being around each other for a long period of time. Last 2 months are time together has been no longer than 5-10 minutes discussing S14. W seemed eager to tell me about a friends wedding she attended the say before. I was cordial and validated the issues she brought up in regards to how she was feeling about other things in her life. You would have thought things were normal just by watching us. She even mentioned just how good I was looking lately with the weight loss. And even mentiones that my beardbhad kess gray.
For some reason, I thought it would be weird. And old feelings would get involved. But I really didn't feel too much for W at all. It was if I was talking to an old neighbor who I was catching up with. Pretty certain she texted OM at some point during brunch. Whenever W is trying to think of something sexy and cute to text in response, she tends to rub her lips as she concentrates.
W always thought that I was going through her found, but I simply just happen to be aware of her body language in that regard. I just ignored her trifiling behavior and just continues talking with S14. She can't even stop dealing with this guy for 3 hours to celebrate her own son. This is the behavior of damn near all the women in her family. That she has complained abiut for years. Which is a huge reason why I had the paperwork drawn up. I can't and refuse to live in that type of dysfunction.
