Thanks, I will definitely keep DBing my butt off. Still I have some questions about how to go about it. Do I continue simply being a friend for her, as she has very few at this point, or do I let her make the moves and sit back and relax? I just don't get it, why after 2 months of them being together, him treating her like crap and she still prefers him, do I look at it like that or should be seeing this is a different light? Anyway nothing more for an update, but will continue to rant here, makes me feel better and has less chance of getting back to her this way, keep up the great work DBers, all the assistance is more than welcomed and appreciated.