WW in EA, NC w/OM(?), W's BFF interfering, part 7

[CW2017]

Hi Sandi
sorry to jump on to this thread but in case you were passing! A simple question which may aid the debate here. As the WW's MO is that of an ultra selfish person what if that person was selfish to begin with i.e. in the DNA? I ask because my W would definitely fit into that category. In that case would be the WW selfish behaviour be on another level? As one of the vets said to me a while back there is a difference between who wears the trousers and who is the head of the household which I have always strived to be. Yet my W has always put her own needs first and not just in matters of the heart. thanks all