I have this awful feeling she will only snap out of the fog only once something dramatic happens and she ends up at a low point, as Sandi says in her general advice. As we have in theory 40 more years together I will have to decide whether this can all be worked through, as well as her menopause!

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains