Hi Dmoy, I'm new and overwhelmed by my own husband leaving but I read your post. It sounds like you've been responsive to your wife and have made a good effort to work on the marriage and fix things. That's really nice you left her flowers and a letter. If you're doing all these things with good intentions I don't see why she's acting that way, but maybe she'll cool down over time or you'll find a way to ask her somehow.
All I can say if my husband did what you're doing I'd definitely be happy to work with him to fix the marriage.
