Well different attitude and different set of questions. Now that I see she is doing all things I did when she was deciding to leave me to the OM. Pleading, begging, apologizing the whole nine yards, I know it won't be long before the sitch with Om willbe over and done with. What approach do i take? Do I plead, let her be or discuss the issue of her returning home? These are the things I need to know. Just looking for advice on how to proceed. Don't want to sit back and do nothing and watch her get involved with another man. But she may be quite distraut as what she thought was better than what she had, is now falling apart as the days go by. Do I jump at the opportunity or let blocks fall where they may? T2 where are you, you words are quite insightful and help me greatly. Anyone with some tips as to how to proceed from here???