Trying to stay above water 2

[leahsue]

Let him buy the part. Why not? Whatever his motivation is, unless he told you, would just be mind reading. I'm not sure why it would matter anyway. Take the emotion out of it and just look at it as a practical matter.

I think you need to seriously come up with a financial plan and prepare for a D settlement that you feel good about. It's not about giving up. It's about protecting yourself. Again, what could it hurt? You'd be proactive, planning for a future without him, and in the end if you don't need it, tear it up, no harm done.

Prepare for the worst, and hope for the best. But be smart.