Well she dropped daughter off tonight, was fairly pleasant, gave me news that she had found a place, no mention of wanting money. I am standing firm on not giving her a dime, she plans on moving in next week. This means no more living at OM house. She got a place fairly close to mine, she mentioned that was a big plus for her. She gave me a run down of the place, mentioned it wasn't that big but would do for now. Said she can afford it for now but may a different dtory in the winter when heating the place becomes an issue. I simply smiled throughout the conversation and told her good for her at finding a new place and wished her luck. She even said she may call on the weekend to so something with the daughter and I. Again, she seems commited to keeping me in her life, which is good I think. Heard through the grapevine, as I have many friends in the city and she has few, that her and the OM had it out the other night, to the point where frustration set it and both ended the conversation quite peeved at each other. You were right T2, it seems the OM thing isn't so peachy after all, boo hoo hoo, I think I need a kleenex, lol. But she has yet to open up her emotions to me, unwilling to discuss her feelings yet, but from I can gather this will come once she has made up her mind to make amends. I will be patient as that is the key, I understand.
Its amazing now that I look at things with clearer eyes how much every sitch seems to go through the same stages, i just hope they materialize into bigger and better things as they have for so many more. But I will be patient and not push any issues onto her and let things ride the course.
It's funny how this morning there was bitterness and tonight pleasantries, what a crazy world we live in. I'm still confused why the attitude adjustment from AM to PM. Maybe her getting her own place is opening her eyes to see that OM isn't really the man she thought he was. Only time will tell, I;ll keep DBing in the mean time. Great comments from all of you, very helpful and timely, I will post some new updates as the occur.
