And now I just realized i need an expensive part for the hot tub. And H said to confirm a price and he would get it. I just said ok. Because normally I would have said no. We don't need your help you don't live here so it's not your responsibility. So my 180 would be to accept his help. How do I respond to this? Just let him buy the part? I feel like he does this just to alleviate his guilt. There is no other explanation for it. Looking for advice on what to do.
