I wouldn't take the pictures off the wall. I would enjoy X-mad and Halloween together. Wouldn't kids enjoy that. Those memories will be with them for a life time.
Don't push her away if she is coming closer. Just remember to not pursue and don't initiate M or R talk. Let her bring those up. Thats my two cents.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
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This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.