Based off of what you have said. Wouldn't a 180 be making more time for your family? I think you should keep the traditions.
I wouldn't take her photos off the wall to "make her see". In my experience, that always backfire.
The notion is of making someone miss you is not taking stuff away. It's the idea of being your best self so that they begin to question their decision to leave.
So what does your best self look like?
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
