Just think of your W's antics as PMS personified. She is very very confused right now. By now, she's already realized that her fantasy of happily ever after if she were 'just free' again has fallen apart on her.
She's ALREADY discovered that the reason the grass looked greener on the other side of the fence was because there is a cesspool underneath that she couldn't see or smell until she got over there.
Hang in there buddy. You're wife's mood swings are her coming to terms with the reality of the crappy choices she's recently made. T2
