Hi Sotto,

Thanks for your response! I'll try to plan more activities for when my husband takes our child out. Currently I need some of the time to do consulting work but I am active with a new church and new friends (we just moved to our current city a year ago). I used to take Latin dancing lessons but it's been a while....I'd like to learn meditation or go to the gym. Perhaps those aren't the best excuses to dress up but I'll work on it.

I'll look for your other posts in the other forum and hope to learn more about saving oneself. I'm just physically not well from all this stress and wish to work on the health issues first and foremost.

Did you ever meet another man or re-marry?

Thanks again!