Thanks for the encouragement, great advice. We'll have to see if the initiating of contact by her continues, as I mentioned she seemed a bit ticked off the past 24 hours, so don't know what to expect next, maybe pleasantries, maybe rudeness. I guess just sit tight and hold the fort. It will be interesting to see what materializes in the next few days or so, as I mentioned before she was quite receptive in the past week, now getting moody, maybe things with her knight in shinning armour aren't so peachy, isn't that a bummer. Someone once told me the grass is always greener on the other side until the dog pees on it, maybe the dog had to go, lol....Any other comments or advice are more than welcome, thanks all for replying and helping me through these confusing and stressful times.