There is nothing normal about your Sitch. Didnt your wife neglect the finances and now you are filing for bankruptcy? Just because you are not arguing, dont mean things are normal. There is OM that your wife is in love with. Do you find that normal?
You need to read love is tough. In the book the Dr. Talk about creating chaotic moments, confronting the problems head on. It's a great book and opened my eyes.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
