We had a big argument the day befire. I told her I was tired of her attitude and acting all mean. I told her why is still in the house if she has stuff and bad attitude and didnt want to be around me. I told her why don't she leave. We had a blow out about who should stay in the house. I told her I wasn't leaving.
The next day we had a great conversation. She Told me how a lack of disrespect allowed her to cheat on me. Show told me, I didnt make her feeled secure as a woman and wife. She also told me straight out that she still have a lot of resentment for the way I treated her. She told me she felt take for granted and not valued. I never told her how beautiful she was and held her.
After this conversation the tension has went way down in our home.
She hasn't told me she wanted to work on the M. But she has started making long term plans, like she plan on staying here.
She sent the OM a message right in front of me. I can't find a sign that she has talked to him since. And I know just because I havent found evidence, dont mean it's not happening.
She asked me today who was I, because I wasn't becoming combative and defensive, when she asked me to go back into the store and get something she forgot to ask me to get. She keep referring to the old joejoe would have done such and such.
Also, my wife hate not driving. She gets car sick when other people drive. Today we took the kids to our city fair. I was the last one to het to our vehicle. I was sure I was sitting on the passenger side. I walk outside she sitting on the passenger side.
She really want professional help, to help her deal with her depression. I hope she gets the help she needs.
Am I missing something. I try to follow what you say about a WW. I have applied the 37 rules. But I know this road still has some turns left.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
