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[gw5263]

|Got ya |LH, just some observations, thats all. |My sitch seems very odd to me. i think, no, i know she is cake eating. getting from me what he cant provide over the phone. shelter, etc, basics of life. company, conversation.\
Here is what confuses me. our R now is like we never skipped a beat. no fights, no arguing, none of that. until R talk pops up and i ask about working on us. other than that, if you were here youd never no there was an issue. the only difference now is we dont share a bed, no intimacy of any kind, and of course, the elephant in the room, OM. \
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i read other threads where there all all these different issues, and we have none of them. so its hard to figure out which path to take other than |GAL and 180, which i am working on. My goal is to save my M, and build a beeter one. just curious if my sitch is the norm or an anomoly.. it is like none of the others i have read here.