Thanks for the reinforcement T2, much needed as confused as ever now.
As mentioned yesterday, kept replies short and sweet. When she dropped off daughter last evening, she made comment as to why she had to drop off and pick daughter up all the time. I didn't really answer the question, just said because, but didn't elaborate. Then she got a little pissy and slammed the door on the way out. Again this morning she came over to pick up daughter as I had to work and was very distant and had that evil look in her eye, almost a pissy look. SImply got daughter ready and said see ya tonite, she politley said bye and was on her way. Don't know if I struck a cord with not folding to her request of picking up our daughter and dropping her off to make her life easier, her reasons for asking was that wanted to have more sleep time. Again I don't know if she thinks I am going to accomodate her lifestyle any further now that she is gone. Its almost as if she expects me to drop everything for her at a drop of a hat to help her out, be it money, babysitting for her on nights she is supposed to have our daughter, helping her get into her new place and so on. T2 I really value your input, you seem to everything into great perspective for me, keep up the good work.