There is a tendency for LBS's to read into every word said by WWs. She's talking about the future that must mean we're getting staying together. It means nothing. Those are just words. Look at actions.
I'll try again. You need to take the focus off your wife. Work on the man you want to become. Get out and get a life like there is no tomorrow. Be mysterious when possible.
Then just maybe your wife will come back to a different marriage. That's the only way it works out long term. Until then she will throw you a bone every now and then so she can continue to live off you and eat cake every night.
