I know how difficult it is for us not to fold up like a cheap suit when our WAS comes around asking for anything because we think if we give them what they want, that somehow they'll have this miraculous realization that we're such a great S....NOT GONNA HAPPEN
Walkaways NEVER "get" what they're about to lose UNTIL they really see that they ARE LOSING IT...then all of a sudden having the best of two worlds isn't quite what it was.
Hang in there Wood. Set your boundaries. Surely OM is such a prize that he'll pick up the tab...LOL T2