I think getting the "feeling" back is key. Not that we ACT on it.

But I do think it's key in starting to heal that enormous blow to our self-esteem that we get, just from rejection!

It's like suddenly we realize, HEY, MAYBE IT'S NOT ME! Maybe they just chose a different path or person, but I can still be someone else's FIRST choice.

Hang in there!

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M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton