Thanks for the back up, I had those thoughts going through my head as well, figuring she was just out for money. I am in the process of remaining dark to see if this is the only reason she contacts me. She has yet to break down and apologize for her actions except for an email she sent a while where she said she knew what she did was wrong, but that's it. It's almost as if she just wants to go on like this and this is the perfect scenario for her. My next few steps are going to be to remain dark as mentioned, not initiate anything and live my life without her for now. Maybe all the loneliness will give her time to think, as I believe lately I may have been filling in those lonely nights for her, and not giving her time to think. As you said time for her to get a dose of reality, let her knight in shinning armour take care of her, not my department right now. Thanks for the insight T2, much appreciated. Its going to be interesting to see what her next contact with me will be like especially if she comes for money and I tell her can't do it. See if she gets mad at it, if she does, I will know her plan.