Wait a second, you said she's not asked for CS or spousal support and you want to cut her off for car insurance. Uh, do the math and stop letting your pain push you.
This is exactly what I thought.
Wheree I am anyway, the courts order child support by the number of overnights. It doesnt matter if the kids spend 12 hours with me - if they sleep at my ex's house, then it would be a day there.
We have it set up 50/50 on overnights, and Id say if it goes one or two one way or the other, it's not a big deal and nobody says anything. But I know if they were staying with me 20 nights a month, then it wouldnt really be 50/50 anymore.
My point is that right now, youre at an 85/15 split. My guess is that you are looking at several hundreds of dollars a month - especially if you are the prime earner. Frankly, I wouldnt balk at the 1-200 a month for car insurance if you are getting off without CS/SS.......