This all sounds good, but what specifically do you intend to do differently to avoid a repeat of the argument from yesterday?
Imagine she opens the conversation in the same way. What will you do next time?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16