For the WW, she believes everything is about her. Not only is she selfish, but she is very jealous about anything that takes away something from her.
And this is the flip side to my earlier, above-posted "gut-think"... the WW's "me me me" syndrome. Throughout my own ordeal, I have been convinced by things my wife has said and done that probably the major reason she is still around is that she is "afraid of losing [or hurting alienating, or driving away] the kids." But to a WW, this is not so much about not hurting the kids or destroying the family, but rather that the kids "will hate ME" or "will be angry with ME" if I openly run off with OM.
Heaven forbid.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
