Regarding objecting to anything it would make absolutely no difference to her whatsoever. I feel due to my DR'ing and getting BETTER at detaching sparked this episode, she's lost me she's worried that her plan b is getting on with his life there's not much more I can do to GAL that I'm not already doing.
The contact has to happen due to my situation I CAN'T CHANGE THIS. This is her trying to gain control back and me sticking up for my boundaries that's all.
Yes I am available if I have my boys with me for her and can understand how she can see this as me being there for her, well so be it BUT I never chase she does I just remain USUALLY in control and happy showing someone moving on.
How I look at this panning out and everybody's views about that might be contributing to her disrespect please see above ^^^^^^^ I can't do any more!
I believe people leave bad for good NOT the opposite way around I intend to be the good.
I see myself out of her life now that's obvious but the dynamics change when she needs to have contact with the boys. < This I use to my advantage BUT when I'm alone I GAL never contact and do all the DRing principles.
I intend to no longer allow her disrespectful ways to affect me and will stand up for what I believe.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
