I dont like him, Im not going to hang out with him, but I know that no matter what my opinion is, he is in my children's lives. If they have a soccer game or a dance recital or a parent teacher conference, he is going to be there. Me suggesting I will never meet him is just putting my head in the sand.
^^^^^^^ I agree 1000% but something I try not to think about in my own sitch I will deal with it when/if it happens but at some point in time we all have to realize whether it is the AP or another man several years later if we don't reconcile it is going to happen!