B...congrats again, I think the one thing that impressed me the most with you sitch is the following:

I don't think you ever got petty or angry with your W and said things to her out of emotion or where vindictive.

To me that is a mistake the most LBS make because they are so hurt by the A or by just being left in general.

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018