How a treehouse can cost you your marriage

[joejoe1]

Clyde,

Kaizen make great points. From reading your last post, I gleam from you that doing less work is not an option. If you want to make your M or R better, you are going to have to figure out a way to take the load off yourself. Your work is self induced. I feel you on providing for your family financially, but that's is not the only need they need. Emotionally are you providing. Is there a balance being provided between financial and emotional? If not a change has to come from you.

I also see and read from your last post a lot of, "my wife share fault in the demise of the M". Which is true, but like multiple posters and vets have told you, this journey is about you. You wife have her faults, no doubt, but focusing on those won't help you in this journey. What are the changes you need to make, to make yourself better, for this M or a future R?

Another question, is working all those hours worth losing your M? If the answer is no. Then you have a tough decision ahead.

I can tell you feel over worked, and under appreciated. I did as well, but me feeling that way don't fix the problem. If you want your M to work you must find a lasting solution.