The thing is that our WS didn't drop the bomb on us, then went out and found OM. We literally caught our spouses having an A, then they mentioned they wanted to leave us. By the time we knew there was an issue with the MR. The third party waa already in place. Which literally adds to the frustration. You seriously put in all the hard work. But that OM in the picture adds a whole different dynamic. Especially when you realize this guy isn't even doing 15 per cent of what you were doing as a bad H. That even further messes with your confidence.
Hi Pal,
I understand.
I completely get it. I'm sure it isnt easy thats for sure.
What I am trying to say is that you can only really concentrat the things you are in control of.
Not only that but doing these things to get her/him to 'come back' is wrong.
Its your life, and if they want to come on it with you then brilliant, if not then your best placed to move on.
But like I say, I am sure it would be even harder with kids involved also.
