The thing is that our WS didn't drop the bomb on us, then went out and found OM. We literally caught our spouses having an A, then they mentioned they wanted to leave us. By the time we knew there was an issue with the MR. The third party waa already in place. Which literally adds to the frustration. You seriously put in all the hard work. But that OM in the picture adds a whole different dynamic. Especially when you realize this guy isn't even doing 15 per cent of what you were doing as a bad H. That even further messes with your confidence.
