How a treehouse can cost you your marriage

[Clyde]

And so while she has said even recently that my work was a main issue, I completely get it, and don’t want to discount what part it played in all this, cause it did. I personally feel like there were some other factors that played a bigger part in our demise - that being the “sister” and friends (now if any of you think I am passing the blame feel free to let me know).

Prior to the last 2 years my W put me above her friends, we were best friends who confided everything with one another, thats how I know about all the affairs the “sister” and friends had. Then one night I was taken back by the W’s response to something she told me. She was telling me she was concerned about her “sister” she was in Vegas with some guy she met on one of those “sugar daddy” websites, I just laughed and shook my head as it did not surprise me. My W said “No you don’t understand, she had only just met the guy online a day or two prior, he offered to take her all expenses paid in exchange for her being his arm candy.” My response again was to shake my head and laugh, I told the W “thats what you call an escort” the W did not refute the escort comment, instead took the conversation to her concern about her “sisters” safety, being there with a stranger. After talking about her safety for a few minutes I asked the W, “wait a minute, isn’t she living with “whats his face” (her boyfriend at the time, - I’ll leave his real name out of it), the W said yes, she is. Again I shook my head but did not laugh this time, instead I said that is f’d up, poor "whats his face", to which I expected the W to agree as she would of in the past. The wife did not agree it was f’d up, instead ripped me apart for judging the "sister" and did not talk to me for the rest of the night. BTW “whats his face” is now the “sisters” husband as of a few weeks ago.

Over the past year I have read many text of the “sister” & friends talking bad about me to the W, encouraging her to steel money, to ignore what the MC was telling her, to ignore what our Pastor was telling her, to get out, and so forth.