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[gw5263]

something Sandi said a while back to me rang true tonight.
Sandi said that a WW has to feel a loss or two tohelp her along. It may be related to me or it may be unrelated to me at all, just a consequence of her actions.

Well, my wife is heavily involved in Girl Scouts. She was a member of the state board of service units until to0night. The main troop leader in our county called and asked if she were coming to an event tomorrow night. My wife said that she didnt get notified of it, but would be there. The troop leader asked if she had re registered with the state board as a unit leader, and my wife said no, she was not notified.

Long story short, she is no longer invovled with Girl Scouts because they didnt tell her about renewal. One of the leaders is was a friend of hers and knew we were separated and about the A. I believe that they thought she was a poor role model due to her actions, ( I agree) and did not want her involved. My wife suspects as much. She was extremely upset and cried outside about this. Before her A, she was a very big part in SScouting in this and three surrounding counties. She really enjoyed it and put a lot of time and effort into it. She has been involved since my daughter was 4 or 5, and never missed a meeting or camp out. This was a big loss for her. No idea if this has any signifigance, just illustrating one of Sandi's points made to me.

Of a side note, she has removed the lock screen photo of her and OM from her phone quietly.. Just an observation, not attaching any hope or signifigance to it.