About the car .....is it in your name, or both names? If so, then I suggest you protect yourself by keeping it covered by insurance.
The car is in her name only but it doesn't matter; ownership and insurance are 2 independent things (at least in our state). The car MUST be covered by state law and to protect assets in case of MVA. The question is how to tell her to get her own coverage for the car she's driving without a possible s--tshow.
Wait a second, you said she's not asked for CS or spousal support and you want to cut her off for car insurance. (The car is a marital asset, btw).
Uh, do the math and stop letting your pain push you. You want her to feel pressured to file, b/c her having to pay the car insurance or others bills is NOT going to wake her up to the advantages of being married to you. It's going to annoy the crap out of her.
BTW, my h canceled my car insurance and our d's coverage (without notice, of course.) And that violates the court order not to risk marital property and or dissipate assets.
Then he canceled the life insurance I was paying for (came directly out of my bank account and cost him nothing to leave in place. )
I realize the situations are not alike, but I can tell you how I view these^^ behaviors.
Petty, mean spirited, controlling, and cheap. I will never see him the same way again.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016