If she doesn't do those things even better. Go about your life. If you think she don't care about losing you. Then test that theory out. But, I will tell you this she ask you to come back because she couldnt handle it on her own. So that tells me, she knows something, is worth it about you. You hold value in her life. Ask yourself, what value do you hold in her life. Why does she stay around you or want you around? Start slowly taking what value she sees in you away. And put that back into yourself.
The boundaries are for you and not her. She might not yell now. But if you start to pull away and it makes her uncomfortable, you will get some mood changes.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.