first, I don't agree that nothing a LBH does makes a difference to a woman having an A
If I did, then what is the point of coming here or even lifting a finger to work on yourself?
Oh, I know, b/c working on yourself is the right thing to do, regardless of the wife's choices.
I don't defend affairs, but I think it's strange to put them all in the same category.
I know women who have had affairs and most ended it on their own, regardless of whether their h's knew.
Painful, try not to talk yourself into inaction and surrender. It's a fine line between that and trying to be at peace, I know. But be careful to watch for that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
